Is
Procrastination Keeping You from Getting Ahead?
Procrastination,
otherwise known as creative avoidance or making
excuses, is one of the most powerful habits preventing
you from developing your truest potential.
We all have hopes
and dreams for a successful future. Some of us
even set goals and objectives that we plan to
meet. Regardless of where we fit in that spectrum,
there are always opportunities to get distracted
and create excuses that prevent us from reaching
our goals.
Inspirational
speaker Peggy L. McNamara, author of the No More
Excuses series, offers some tips to push you into
action:
* The first
step to overcoming creative avoidance is to recognize
it.
Take a few moments
to identify one objective you've had for yourself,
but haven't found the time to fit into your schedule.
Even though you know this task would be helpful
to you, your career or personal life, you still
keep it on the "back burner." Deep down,
we all have things that we avoid to some extent.
The longer you've been avoiding an issue, the
longer it will take to recognize your avoidance.
For some of us, our procrastination becomes guilt,
which then can snowball into reduced effectiveness.
What is it that you have been putting off?
* Ask yourself
"Why have I been putting this thing off?"
It is crucial
that you force yourself to set your emotions aside
and look at this situation as logically as possible.
Writing things down can help with that process.
This is not the place to judge, condemn or criticize.
Write down the reasons for not acting on this
thought or plan. If you discover that your life
has changed, and therefore this goal no longer
fits, then dispose of it before it gets in the
way of anything else in your life. However, if
you know there is something you really want to
make happen, figure out what is stopping you from
taking the first step. Without that knowledge,
creative avoidance will thrive.
* Creative
avoidance is simply letting your fears, doubts
or inhibitions get in the way.
Whether it is
fear of failure, success, looking stupid, vulnerability,
all the work it will take to make this happen,
how others will react or just general lack of
belief in yourself, fear can and will get in the
way of your dreams. Procrastination is simply
a way to cover up your fears about a certain goal.
Sure, some things are boring and may be put off
such as organizing a closet or cleaning out the
garage. But this is about things such as starting
a new business, resolving a conflict or adjusting
your lifestyle to be more positive. Change is
not easy. It is common to create a negative picture
in our minds of a goal we have not yet acted on.
The key is to discover what is at the root of
your procrastination. When you are really creative
at avoiding something and have lots of fears wrapped
around it, you are probably onto something significant
that could affect your life in a positive way.
What are you afraid of?
* Don't let
fear prevent you from fulfilling your potential.
Ask yourself
the following questions: “What is the worst that
could happen if I take the first step toward this
goal?" Or, "Will I regret it if I keep
setting this task aside?" The answers to
those two questions can be your driving force
as well as give you the courage to move ahead.
* Last, but
not least, find someone to whom you will be accountable.
Most of us feel
more committed when we answer to someone. If you
are not comfortable with this idea, then find
someone who will encourage you when you need it.
We all have moments of doubt and it is important
we have people we can talk with to give us a hand.
Overcoming creative
avoidance is a life-long commitment. It is crucial
to accept that every day brings new challenges,
obstacles and opportunities. The key is to be
able to identify when we are avoiding something
due to lack of courage. "If you work on these
solutions you will be able to combat creative
avoidance ... one step at a time," says McNamara.
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