We've
all found ourselves, at
one point or another in
our lives, wanting to approach
a beautiful woman. Whether
she just walks past us,
or is seated at a table
across from us in the same
restaurant, the thought
has crossed our minds. But
when the time came to approach
them, we simply sat back
and rationalized that it
was not the appropriate
time to make a move.
Most
men refuse to approach women
because they have no idea
how to go about it, especially
on the street. Hey, if it's
hard enough approaching
women in clubs -- where
the environment invites
social communication --
then imagine how much harder
it is when it comes to the
outside world.
you
never know who you'll meet
I've met a lot of beautiful
women over the past few
years, but the most interesting
ones were those that I met
by chance: on the street,
in a café or even at a restaurant.
These women were also the
ones I found most difficult
to approach.
The
only problem is that the
situation is a little trickier.
Firstly, you only have a
few moments to make a courageous
move, unlike a dance club,
where you have all night
to break the ice. Secondly,
because you're in a not
so welcoming environment,
some women might be afraid
of your ways.
Some
Common Mistakes Men Make
Unfortunately,
some men don't realize that
certain factors will deter
a woman from accepting an
advancement or invitation
from a total stranger. Here
are the top 10 common mistakes
men make when approaching
a woman:
1-
Forgetting a woman's comfort
zone
Just because you
know that you're a nice
guy, that doesn't mean she
will too. It is important
for you to realize that
most women will be on their
guard when you first approach
them. This is normal, and
the important thing is for
you to come across as a
harmless guy. A little humor
usually helps.
2-
Trying to fool women
The second biggest error
most men make is that they
don't give women enough
credit and respect. Most
men think that they can
fool a woman into giving
them their number. Listen,
women know that you're trying
to pick them up, so don't
beat around the bush. Be
direct and let them know
exactly what you want. By
doing so, you'll come across
as a confident and straightforward
man.
3-
Approaching without a plan
Some people can improvise
successfully, but regardless
of the case, having a plan
always helps your chances
of coming across as a person
she might consider dating.
4-
Acting like a pervert
It just seems that men keep
on sabotaging any good chances
they have by keeping their
eyes aimed down at a woman's
breasts. Instead, keep your
eyes locked onto hers. You
want her to think that you're
the knight in shining armor
who's going to romantically
sweep her off her feet rather
than a dog who's just sniffing
any old fire hydrant ready
to mark his territory.
