Dear
Player,
I
consider myself to be a
rather good-looking 34-year-old
man. Yet I still find it
very difficult to meet and
talk to women. I don't have
a problem going to the right
places. In fact, I get invited
to a lot of social gatherings
and parties filled with
many beautiful women.
The
problem is I become too
hesitant while trying to
approach a particular woman;
out of fear of rejection,
I guess. I'd like to know
if a woman finds me attractive
before even approaching
her.
Unfortunately,
being from Mars, I have
no clue what a "Venusian"
is thinking unless I talk
to her. What usually ends
up happening is that I'll
stare all night, and she'll
stare right back, but no
contact will be made. The
following week I'll hear
from a friend that she thought
I was really good-looking.
By this time, it's way too
late and I'll just end up
kicking myself in the behind.
Tell me, how can I tell
if she's interested?
Tony,
The Blind Man
nature's little secret
Most people think that in
the courting game, men are
the first to initiate the
courtship. But that is completely
incorrect. The reality is
that in almost all successful
pickups, it is the woman
who seduces the man without
saying a single word.
In
other words, a woman will
initiate the game by using
body language to signal
that she is interested,
available and receptive.
That's right boys, you heard
it here first.
The
Player always gets his woman,
not only because he's a
great-looking guy, but also
because he's a slick talker
who doesn't fear rejection.
The Player knows how to
read a woman's body language
to perfection.
By
reading a woman's physical
lingo, I can spot a woman
across the room (or bar)
who's either very unhappy
with her man, aching to
satisfy her sexual needs,
or simply wants to engage
in a pleasant conversation.
read
her body, not her mind
Most gentlemen fail to realize
the importance of body language.
Instead, they try to focus
on reading a woman's mind.
They stand around for hours
holding a drink in their
hands wondering if she's
interested or not. Little
do they know that the answer
lies in her stance.
Forget
about trying to read her
mind, even God is probably
clueless as to the mysterious
functioning of a woman's
complex mind. Stop trying
to read her thoughts and
look at her body instead.
When I say body, I'm not
referring to her breasts,
but rather her flirtatious
behavior and gestures, i.e.
facial and posture patterns.
Unfortunately,
men either choose to completely
ignore a woman's body language,
or are completely clueless
as to how to interpret the
signs. But remember this
-- everything about socializing
is based on the following
two facts:
First,
communication is 60% nonverbal.
Second, nonverbal signs
have five times more impact
than verbal ones. So if
you're not paying attention
to her body language, you're
missing out on 60% of the
game. Then you wonder why
you always go home alone
at the end of the night.
Learn
how to read her body language
and be the one to take her
home...
