Get
out there and flirt
No
matter what you think, to
be a great flirt it's not
necessary to be devastatingly
attractive, rich, smooth,
or good at batting your
eyelashes. To master the
fine art of flirting, follow
these simple guidelines
and you will be on your
way to being the best flirt
in town. You should now
be confident enough to try
flirting. If you aren't
go back and try again.
Give out the right signals
Be sure, and this is very
important, that you give
out the right signals. If
you are interested in some
one enough to want to take
it further then just flirting
then flirt like mad. However
if you are flirting just
for the fun of it (and there
is nothing wrong with this
and most women flirt just
for fun) make sure that
the man knows this, and
that your body language
ain`t telling him otherwise.
Also some men, in fact most
men can be a bit on the
slow side when it comes
to reading into what a women
wants, which may mean you
might have to spell it out
for him.
Dress
for the eye
If you want someone to
approach you it is much
easier if you're wearing
a conversation starter
(i.e. a badge, a crazy
wig.) This will also show
that you have a funny
side. If you are trying
to attract the attention
of the office hunk wear
a bit more make-up and
a skirt that reveals a
little bit of leg, (but
not short enough to reveal
show panty's.)
Feel good about yourself
Positively is contagious.
Feel good about yourself,
about what you wear, about
your hair and others will
feel good about you.
Get eye contact
Now some people might
take offence if you stare
at them for a long period
of time. Let the guy know
you are trying to catch
his eye then when you
hold his gaze give a gentle
smile and let your eyes
drop to the floor. He
won`t feel intimidated
and he will know that
you are interested.
Smile
This shows friendliness
and self-confidence, which
is viewed as one of the
most attractive qualities
a member of the opposite
sex can have.
Who's
watching
Walk though a group
of men and have your friends
watch to see who is checking
you out.
Mingle
Walk about and mingle
with people. Get to know
friends of the guy you
are trying to attract.
You could even ask them
a question or two about
the guy. (But don`t over
do it you don`t want to
sound desperate or to
keen.)
Separate
yourself from friends
Take time out to be alone
for a bit. This will make
you more approachable.
Men some times feel awkward
approaching a woman when
she is in a crowd of other
women in case of rejection.
Be
polite
If you aren't interested
in a guy, be polite
when you reject him.
It takes a lot of courage
to approach someone
so be sure you turn
him down in the way
that you would appreciate
being turned down.
Have
a conversation starter
ready
It is know good approaching
a man if you don`t know
what you are going to
start the conversation
off with. You could
start with a witty line
such as "great
tie may I buy it from
you when you are finished
with it?" Or you
could simply start with
your name, but remember
to back it up. He might
be just as nervous as
you.
Boost
his ego
A little flattery never
hurt any body. Men have
always used flattery
on women to get what
they want so why can`t
we women. This is one
of the best ways of
flirting. Boost that
mans ego and you will
have him drinking water
from your stilettos.
(Yes please.) If he
has gorgeous eyes, great
head of hair, is well
groomed, tell him. We
like to be complimented
and so do men so go
on. Flattery gets you
every where.
Be interested
Ask him lots of open-ended
questions. Ask him his
interests, what he does
for a living (but remember
a man might think you
are really interested
in how much he earns
not what he does.) You
may find that you have
a lot in common other
then physical attraction.
Make the first move
A lot of men find it attractive
when a woman approaches
them and find it easier
and more relaxing to talk
openly.
Don`t pretend
Don`t pretend to be something
you are not especially if
you would like to see the
guy again. If you lie about
your age, don`t tell him
you have kids or even that
you wear a wig. When he
finds out the truth he may
decide that he doesn`t want
to take things any further
because of the lack of trust.
And
finally
Only give out your real
phone number. If you decide
to take things further
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