What you should never do when trying to flirt
Don`t
rely on others to make things
happen for you. The only
way to get the man you want
is to go out and get him
yourself. Men like women
that are confident, women
that will approach them.
You aren't in the playground
now, where you would get
your friends to ask the
boy from sixth form out
for you. You are an adult
now and if you don`t want
to settle for second best
you
have
to go out and get your man.
Alone, without help from
your friends.
Flirt all you like but DON`T
tease
It is one thing to flirt
but teasing can land you
in trouble. Have fun, clean
fun. If you are interested
in a man you don`t need
to lead him on into jumping
to the wrong conclusions.
Don`t offer what you don`t
intend to give. The man
may become heavy if you
don`t give him what you
have been suggesting you
are going to give him.
Give
him/her room to breathe - don't make her feel claustrophobic
Don`t crowd him to much
or cling to him. Don`t follow
him around or keep your
eye on him. He is probably
out for the same reason
as you flirt with all the
girls. Instead back off
and play it cool keep him
guessing.
Don`t
let rejection get you down happens to everyone
All of us at one time in
our life experience rejection
from the opposite sex. You
might feel a bit down at
the time of it happening
but you can`t let it hold
you back. If we never got
rejected we would all be
with the wrong guys (it
may sound strange but it
is true because we might
just decide to settle with
someone without having set
our goals higher.) We have
put together a page for
you on how to handle rejection.
Don`t
fidget when close to the person you like
Fidgeting is a sign of nervousness
and lack of confidence and
can put many people off
wanting to approach you.
Even if you are nervous
hold your posture and keep
your hands and legs still.
Better still get onto the
dance floor and put your
hands and legs to good use.
DON`T
get to drunk when out
This is the last but the
most important. Being drunk
can make a usually ugly
guy seem handsome and can
lead you to give him your
phone number or worse still
going back to his place
and waking up next to him
in all his unsightly glory.
When you are drunk you also
aren't aware of your surroundings
or what is happening and
can also leave you forgetting
what took place the night
before, good, or bad. This
is the one time you need
your friends. Make sure
that they don`t leave with
out you and that they see
to it that you get home
safely.
Now
all that is left is for
you to have a good time
and know your own limits.
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