Flirting
Body
language
This
is the language where you
don`t need any words. Women
have been doing it for hundreds
of years to attract the
man they want. Becoming
fluent in body language
will ensure that you will
be skilled in attracting
the right man and sending
the get-lost signal to the
wrong man.
The importance of eye contact with the girl or guy you fancy
The
more eye contact you establish
with the target, the better.
Start with some sidelong
glances. Then, begin with
direct eye contact. Once
he turns to meet your gaze,
immediately lower your eyes
and smile to yourself, this
will tell him that you were
watching him and are embarrassed
that he caught you - a sure
sign of interest. Next,
be bold and try holding
his stare, flashing a small,
open-lipped smile.
If
there is a man that is giving
you the eyes and you are
not interested look away
from him and don`t look
back at him again. When
in conversation, looking
at the ceiling and all around
the room also shows a definite
lack of interest.
First
impressions count - cannot be understated when you meet the person you are attracted to
You leave your home ready
to go to a party when you
spot your gorgeous neighbour
and he doesn`t give you
a second glance. Why? Because
you aren't dressed your
best. When you entering
a room most people look
to see who has come in.
This is when you have to
make an impression. Looking
your best will make you
feel your best. So make
sure that before you leave
your front door look your
best, and you never know
you might just attract the
attention of that gorgeous
neighbour.
The
Body language such as your hand movements can be a clear signal such as the caressing of a wine glass...
Even without direct contact,
your hands can send very
powerful messages. There
are a number of ways to
convey that you want to
get to know someone. Keeping
your hands unclenched shows
you're open to him. Using
your hands to caress objects,
such as the rim of your
glass, locks of your hair,
or the sleeve of your blouse,
in a rhythmic (as opposed
to fidgety) manner, can
be a sensual act. And for
the braver hands, try picking
fluff off his jacket, touching
him to punctuate a point,
or using the "accidental
touch" when reaching
for the salt.
Hands
that are jammed in pockets,
busy cleaning glasses, or
balled in tight fists are
all bad signs. Fingers tapping,
drumming, pointing, or wagging
are also signals to move
on.
Stand
out from the crowd, showing a man you want him
Your posture is one of the
most telling signals you
transmit. An open posture
is evidence of an open person.
Turning your body toward
the man you're conversing
with, keeping your feet
flat on the floor and leaning
forward are actions that
show interest. As well,
slightly tilting your head,
crossing and uncrossing
your legs, and thrusting
your chest forward give
the message that you are
interested.
As
for ways to send a man packing,
crossing your arms, holding
a drink high in front of
you, turning your body away
or resting your feet on
their toes will tell a person
you are not interested.
A
few extra tips for pulling the man of your dreams/desires
Hopefully by now, you have
an attack plan and a clear
idea of when it's time to
get down and dirty or when
you're best just to wave
the white flag. Here are
just a few more tips when
trying to perfect your body
language skills:
- You'll
know things are going
really well when you
begin "mirroring"
one another's body language
and gestures.
- Don`t
tease him by offering
more than you plan to
follow through. This
can lead to very ugly
circumstances
- Chain
smoking, being extremely
intoxicated, or having
eyes only for your plate
of food will not put
you in the best standing
for the body language
game.
- If
you try your hand at
it, and he's not responding,
abort the mission immediately.…
- Following
him around all night
will only serve in making
you look needy and desperate.
And
finally, if all else fails,
buy yourself a T-shirt
that reads, "Looking
for Love."
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