Date
Your Spouse
Two
questions:
1. Can you remember your courting
days before you were married?
2. Can you remember the last
time you and your spouse dated
each other.
I bet you answered yes to question
1 and no to question 2. It is
a sad fact of married life that
couples stop dating each other.
And those who do usually stop
once they have been married
a short while. I believe every
married couple should go on
date together at least once
a month.
Why dating is good for your
marriage
You get to spend some time together
a way from family and friends
It keeps passion in your marriage
It can be exciting
It stops boredom settling in
It`s a good excuse to dress
up
And It`s good for your sex life
Can
you remember the good old days
when you spent hours deciding
what to wear and changing a
million times before opting
for the first one you tried
on? How you felt like you had
butterflies doing triple somersaults
inside your stomach. Well let
the old feelings come back and
get excited and nervous.
Arrange
a date with your husband and
keep to it. Remember this is
a date so meet him at your chosen
destination. You could get ready
at your friend`s house or get
him to get ready at his friends.
Take
time to prepare for your date.
Take the day off work and have
your hair done. Spend an hour
in the bath and pamper yourself.
Hold
hands, open doors for each other
and lock arms. Be excited and
enthusiastic about your date.
If
you have children ask your relatives
to have them over night or better
still for the weekend and make
the most of your time together.