Be
romantic today
I
HAD AN AFFAIR BECAUSE THERE WAS NO ROMANCE
IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. I have heard this
one a million times or more. With so
many couples running hectic life's today
it is not surprising that there is very
little romance in relationships.
Romance
isn't just about going out to a posh
restaurant, or a dozen red roses, but
a relationship does need romance to
survive. Our life's run in a routinely
pattern, we get up, shower, go to work,
take care of the kids, spend time with
friends, and so on then go to bed.
On
average we spend 10 hours a day with
our partner, at least 7 of those sleeping.
So how can we make time for romance
as well as everything else that needs
taking care of? Don't fret it can be
done.
It
started with a kiss
As soon as you wake up give your loved
one a kiss and tell them how much you
love them. Then before he/she leaves
for work give him/her another kiss.
This will make them feel good all day
and will let them know how much you
love them.
Give
him/her a call
How long does it take to say "I
love you"? A second. Even the high
flying executive can afford to take
a second out of their day and it is
a second worth using. Phone him/her
and tell them that you love them and
have being thinking about them all day.
The two of you will feel loved and will
look forward to
seeing each other
Flowers
On your way home stop at the local park
and pick a few flowers. Most people
would go out and buy a bunch but I personally
think that it is more romantic to pick
them. It shows how much thought and
work went in to getting them. Then when
she greets you give her them.
Wait
for him/her
If you are home first, be waiting at
the door for him/her and greet him/her
with a kiss and cuddle.
A surprise cuddle
When he/she is sitting doing what ever
it is they do sit beside them and give
them a cuddle. You could rent a film
and snuggle up together for the night.
(Go on forget the housework it will
still be there tomorrow.)
A
meal for two
If you are the one that rarely does
the cooking in your house, surprise
her with a candlelit dinner for two.
A
bath together
Run a bath ready for when your loved
one comes home from work and join him/her.
These
are just a few ideas to help you out.
Remember a kiss and a cuddle is just
as romantic as being wined and dined.
But spending an evening out is also
needed at least once a month.
