Jeff:
(Approaches woman at the
bar after receiving positive
body language and successful
flirting) Hi! Do you mind
if I join you?
Primary
Target: No, not at all.
Have a seat.
Jeff:
Thank you, that's very nice
of you. By the way, my name
is Jeff, and you are...?
Primary
Target: My name is Jessie.
(They shake hands).
Jeff:
Can I buy you a drink?
Jessie:
No thanks, I've already
had a little too much to
drink. What about yourself,
aren't you drinking?
Jeff:
No, I get drunk just by
watching people drink --
that's how I am. Because
I get easily excited, I
don't need to drink to have
fun.
Jessie:
(Smiles) (Thinking to herself:
Weirdo!)
Jeff:
(Taps a drumbeat on the
bar while shaking his head
to the music) You know,
you have really beautiful
eyes.
Jessie:
(Smiles) Thanks. (Thinks
to herself -- Oh no,
not another one of those
losers.) Listen, I'm
going to the ladies' room,
I'll be right back.
Two
hours later...
Bartender:
Hey buddy, we're closing.
Time to go home.
Jeff:
I'm just waiting for my
friend Jessie to come back
from the ladies' room.
getting
past "hello"
You have finally found the
woman you want to talk to.
You've noticed her body
language and she definitely
seems interested. You've
flirted with her and she
is receptive -- as seen
in Part 1 of Approaching
Women.
There's
still the possibility that
she might reject you, but
you don't care -- it's part
of the game and you won't
take it personally.
Now
how do you do it? Approach
her, make a good impression
and develop an interesting
conversation that will last
more than ten minutes --
unlike our buddy Jeff.
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