When
a relationship ends we tend to
wonder where it went wrong. Where
there any warning signs that he
lost interest? YES. But you were
so wrapped up in the relationship
or with other things that you
didn`t even see it coming. Here
are 10 warning signs he is no
longer interested. Or maybe these
are who you are acting. Either
way it is time to take a closer
look at your relationship and
decide whether you want it or
not.
He
hasn't called you for a few
days - This isn't necessarily
a sign that it is over but if
you are use to him calling frequently
then there is something wrong.
Picking
fights - Does he fly off
the handle more than usual?
Is he causing arguments over
stupid little things. This is
often a bad case when people
are longer interested in a relationship
but they don't want to be the
one to end it. Don't beat about
the bush ask him out right if
he is no longer interested in
the relationship.
Is
secretive - He no longer
wants to tell you where he has
been or who was on the phone.
Maybe the phone is off limits
to you. He disappears for hours
without an explanation.
He
no longer refers to "we"
but "I" - You
use to sit and plan your future
together. "We are going
to do this, we are going to
do that". Now it is "I
am going to do this". You
are no longer included in his
future.
He'd
rather spend time with his friends
then you - You have to fight
with his friends for his attention.
You
no longer talk - once upon
a time you would sit and have
discussions from everything
to the weather to what is happening
to the ozone. Now he just answers
everything with yes.
Friends
start asking what's wrong -
Friends begin to notice tension
or distance between you.
More
critical of you - "That`s
a horrible dress" Yet he
helped you pick it out only
a few weeks ago.
Remember
that theses are only warning
signs and infect your relationship
may just be going through a
rough patch. Talk to each other
first before you do anything
you may regret.
